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A must see .. heartbreaking but at the same time also very amazing story !!
I love when people help each other …and I also love the wonders medical care can do for people…
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A must see .. heartbreaking but at the same time also very amazing story !!
I love when people help each other …and I also love the wonders medical care can do for people…
and so little time !!! again beign a time optimist have taken me to a new low . lol !! Soo freakin much to do before the new year !! Good morning by the way 😀
1 hour and 20 minutes long – the full documentary !!
Very heartbreaking! I remember when the bombardment of Gaza started ..it was december 2008 .. I had just moved back home to my mom after studying in another city !! I woke up one morning and hearing my mom crying, she just turned on Al-Jazeera (arabic news channel) so I went to the living room and saw the awful images of dead people lying on the ground !! Many burnt and shattered bodies ! Total destruction of a whole community! Made me sick to my stomach …and wondering whats wrong with the world .. why arent UN help these innocent people ?? Well there isnt any justice in the world right now .. maybe there will justice in the future when humans learn how to respect one and other !!
Watch the whole film !! And remember the people of Gaza ♥ and not only them but also think of all the suffering chilren out there who are exposed to war !!
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1) Do Not Marry Potential: Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.
2) Choose Character over Chemistry: While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:
3) Do Not Neglect The Emotional Needs of Your Partner: Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated. To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs: Attention, Affection, & Appreciation. To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs: Respect, Reassurance, & Relief. It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive. When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his sexual desires. Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.
4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans: In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.
5) Avoid Pre-Marital Sexual/Physical Activity:
6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection: There are four questions that you must answer YES to:
If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married. If you don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!
7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety: Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage. Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage. When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions. Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship. If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship. Look for the following things:
8 ) Beware of Lack of Openness In Your Partner: Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the table for discussion from the onset. Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?” It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you, and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them. This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team. When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team. Also important is being vulnerable around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds. How do they handle it? Are they defensive? Do they attack? Do they withdraw? Do they get annoyed? Do they blame you? Do they ignore it? Do they hide or rationalize it? Don’t just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!
9) Beware of Avoiding Personal Responsibility: It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married. People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married. If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage. Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.
10) Watch Out For Lack of Emotional Health and Availability In Your Potential Partner: Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster. Also important to consider are the following:
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http://mentalhealth4muslims.com/2010/03/31/10-ways-to-marry-the-wrong-person/
Sometimes U gotta wonder what kind of sick people get to work inside the hospitals !! Im reading about this awful and disgusting news from London how the body of a old muslim lady who lost the fight again cancer got her body covered in bacon at hospital moruge ..it was discovered by the family members when they wanted to have a last look at their grandmother !!
Seriously .. who does this ?????????? I hope they find the sicko !!
A £5,000 reward is being offered by police after the body of a Muslim woman was found in a hospital mortuary, covered with rashers of bacon.
The desecration was discovered when the family of the grandmother, aged 65, was waiting to see her body after she lost her fight with cancer.
The Metropolitan Police’s racial crime task force was called in to investigate the incident, at Hillingdon Hospital in west London, and an extensive inquiry was launched.
I have personally work with dying patients with cancer and other diseases (Palliativ care) .. Been there to wash clean the dead body and prepar for the family to see & take a good bye and talking them down to morgue !! Its international law that the dying / dead are treated with dignaty!! So for me as a nurse also I find this disturbing .. How people can be so cruel and insensitive !!
Inna lii laah waa innalii raaji’uun !!
A cinema ticket and a coupong for pop corn and drink 😀 yeeey … its my work (former) way of saying thanks for this year and wishing us all a merry x-mas . Im going to see the american version of *Girl with dragon tattoo* the movie based Steig Larsson books about the character Lisbeth Salander … Lets see if they beat the swedish movies . lol … It will be weired thou not seeing Naoomi playing the roll of Lisbeth !